"So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple area..."John 2:15 (NIV).
Men get angry…This is simply a fact of life. We need to know that it is OK to get angry, but we need to understand how God wants us to express our anger, and what he wants us to be angry about. As Christian men, how do we deal with our anger and how do we express it faithfully.
Looking at the passage above from John 2:15, what can we learn from Jesus. At first reading John 2:12-16, it may appear that everything happens all at once. But think about it. He did not immediately lash out. Jesus had to first "make a whip of cords". This would have taken him some time. Time that he used to "process" his anger. Time he used to pray to God for guidance on how to express his anger appropriately.
For an example of how not to react, read the story of Samson in Judges. Samson was selfish, angry and vengeful. The NIV study notes for Judges15:7 says "Samson's fight with the Philistines was primarily motivated by personal anger and revenge rather than by concern for God's deliverance of the Hebrew people. This selfishness and lack of commitment to God eventually led to his ruin." As Christian men, we must think before we lash out in anger. When we do get angry, and feel we need to express it, make sure it is righteous anger (John2:15, Luke 19:45) and not selfish anger, like that of Samson. "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." (Eph 4:29). "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." (Eph 4:31-32). Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for a man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires." (James 1:19-20) We must all make our own whip of cords every time we begin to feel angry...and respond in a Godly way whether it be with compassion or with righteous anger.
Written by: Mike Popovich Senior Chief
